Valentine’s day is here and celebrities have been turning heads with plans for their getaway trips, lovely photos and of course one of a kind love tips and relationship advice. Popular celebrity actress, Joselyn Dumas is a typical Ghanaian lady and a firm believer that a man should take care of her, financially. Even in marriages, they believe it’s the sole responsibility of the man to foot all the bills but actress Joselyn Dumas has a word for ladies with this erroneous perception.
According to the sensational actress in a Facebook post, she advised ladies to put a stop to what has become the societal norm of depending on ones partner to cater for needs as though they were a ‘goldmine’ or their ‘father’.
She noted that ladies are not to get into amorous relationships with the goal of always being at the receiving end of physical benefits from their partners. “Stop getting into relationships because you have a lot of demands and wants and you want your man to take care of them all”, an excerpt of he post reads.
You should stop making your man a goldmine or consider him as your father that he has to take care of everything of all his Daughter’s Needs. Your man also has a life to live and his own demands to fulfil.” she wrote.
Read her post below;
Dear sisters, if you have a man who loves you and cares about you with the little he has, appreciate it and be content with it. Stop getting into relationships because you have a lot of demands and wants and you want your man to take care of them all.
You should stop making your man a goldmine or consider him as your father that he has to take care of everything of all his Daughter’s Needs. Your man also has a life to live and his own demands to fulfil.
In addition to that, also stop getting into relationships with high expectations. High expectations will kill you and you will get disappointed for nothing. If you are with someone and they are unable to provide everything you want yet you adore them, then find a job and cater for yourself.
If you can’t find a job or you are handicapped then walk out of the relationship instead of cheating and find someone capable or an organization for disabled people to support you. Otherwise, cease getting into relationships and marriages for wrong reasons.
The multiple award-winning actress started her career in 2008-2009 with roles in Sparrow Productions’ “A Perfect Picture” and A Sting In a Tale, and on television as host of Viasat 1’s The One Show which she anchored for 4 years.
Joselyn Dumas became a household name in 2011 thanks to her performance as Jennifer Adams in Sparrow’s ten chapter movie series Adam’s Apple. She has since appeared in a starring role in Leila Djansi’s movie A Northern Affair, for which she won Best Supporting Actress at the 2013 Ghana Movie Awards and was nominated alongside some of Africa’s best actresses in the Best Actress category at the 2014 Africa Movie Academy Awards (AMAA), as well as in TV series such as Lekki Wives (Season 2 and 3).
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