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9 things you will learn when you stop going to church

In this part of the world where people are sentimental about religious activities, this is an important note.

If you are knowledgeable about the things going on in some of our religious centres, then you will understand why some people choose to serve God in their own way.

Please note that no one is going to stop you from going to church or any other religious centre. However, the things you will learn here will change your orientation about life generally and help you to stand firm against those who are sanctimonious.

Many people think the moment they stop going to church, they have no connection with God again. They do not believe they can amount to anything in life after stepping outside the folds of the church.

Some on the other hand deliberately pull out of the church because they feel they cannot cope with the strictness of the church leaders who have refused to go with the trend of this century. What people have failed to understand is the fact that God is everywhere.

Here are things you will learn when you stop going to church:

1. God does not think like a man

Stop trying to judge yourself the way men judge; you are dealing with God and not men. Whether you are outside the church or not, His grace is sufficient for you.

2. Being wealthy does not mean God is involved

Do not be swayed by people’s wealth. When the waves of life hit you hard, you will get to understand that being wealthy is not an indicator of God’s presence.

The peace you find afterwards will also determine if it is God’s presence or not.

3. God’s grace supersedes all

As filthy as you are, you will be amazed to find out His grace covers you. He will have mercy on those He chooses to have mercy on.

4. You can have a relationship with God outside the church

God is everywhere. Do not let anyone chide you into believing you have to spend two-third of your day in His house before He hears you. He can speak to you in the darkest hole.

5. Some pastors are fake

Most of the pastors that you see as role models are not trustworthy. If they are not extorting money from you, they may be sleeping with your wife. You never can tell. Only God knows His true worshippers.

6. Women can lead the congregation

While some church leaders are gender sensitive, you should know God’s love and mercies is for everyone. He can speak to a woman and make her lead the congregation.

7. Your salvation is concrete

Irrespective of the fact that you are outside the church, your salvation is sure because you already know God.

No one can take away the personal relationship you have whether you sit on the first row of the pew or not.

8. Fulfillment of physical desires and spirituality are two different entities

Do not allow one to affect the other; treat them as separate entities and you will have peace. Do not let guilt drive you away from God.

9. Those who are quick to judge are guilty

Let he who is without sin be the first to cast the stone! You will be amazed at the number of people who put on the holier than thou attitude in the church.

Those who stand against a particular sin struggle the most with it.

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“Couples who sleep naked have a happier relationship” – Survey

A new survey has revealed that couples who sleep naked have a happier relationship.

The study from Cotton USA asked couples what they slept in at bedtime and then asked them to rate how happy they were in their relationship.

According to the results, 57 percent of those who slept in the nude said they felt happy, compared to 48 percent of pyjamas wearers, 43 percent of nightie wearers and a mere 38 percent of people who wore pants, bum shorts, etc.

Stephanie Thiers-Ratcliffe of Cotton USA said that one of the leading factors for this was that the nakedness encouraged intimacy and openness, thanks to the skin-on-skin contact and the feeling of soft bedding.

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Guys! Ths is what happens to the pen*s as you get older, according to science

Our bodies change with age, but how about the most private parts? What happens to Pen.!s when it ages? Let’s get some clear answers.

So, guys, what can you expect to happen to your Pen.!s when you grow older? These clues will prepare you for the inevitable changes.

How Pen.!s changes with age?


When most men are born, their Pen.!ses reach only 4 cm in length! The average size ranges between 16 and 23 cm. Does it decrease in size, when you grow old? Not exactly, but things change. For instance, if you gain much weight, your Pen.!s looks shorter. The fat is located in the lower part of your belly and covers up part of the Pen.!s shaft. However, in your 60s or 70s the Pen.!s can actually a bit shrink in size by some 2-3 cm.

Testicle size

After 40 they decrease by 1 third of their size. Healthy younger men have them around 3 cm in size, while the older guys may have only 2 cm size balls.

Working condition

The performance changes, too. When you turn 40, your S3@.x:’ual activity and the amount of male hormones in the body decreases. In the youth a healthy man may have S3@.x:’ several times a day, in the later age erectile dysfunction may change things for worse. The muscles weaken and the vessels get clogged. It also contributes to weaker erection. So, having S3@.x:’ few times a week is great, when you age.



It greatly depends on the sensitivity of your male organ. Unfortunately with age it decreases a bit, but it’s good for those guys, who come too fast. Now they have more chances to gain control and boost the duration of their performance in bed.


You start losing your head hair with the age, but that’s not it. Men also lose their pubic hair and their Pen.!ses change the color a bit.

Time spares no one, so enjoy your S3@.x:’ life in the  young age, but do not worry, over 80 percent of men maintain their male organs in great working condition even being seniors.

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Guys beware! It is dangerous to have s*x in these 4 situations

Is S3@.x:’ always good? There are times when you should stay away from it, and every man should know the reasons not to get busy! This list may surprise you.

List of 4 reasons why not to have S3@.x:’:

Besides the obvious thing – not being the husband of the lady you plan to enjoy, there are other reasons to keep away from intimacy. Here they are.

1. At your bachelor’s party


You are a groom and your friends bring in some girls to have fun at your last bachelor’s night out. It’s the worst possible idea to get busy with a stripper or some strange girl. You have picked that woman to be your wife for a reason. Keep it in mind, when other ladies offer fun to you. You do not want to start your married life with cheating. What you sow, you will reap!

2. Alcohol


Either you or she or both of you are drunk. How much is too much? 3 to 5 drinks can make you less wise in your decisions and less cautious. Consuming alcohol, you become more open for risky things, such as unprotected S3@.x:’. And you put yourself and the other person in danger of getting SDTs (HIV and other love bugs) or impregnating the woman.

Such a situation is highly undesirable. So, if you drink too much, make a rule to abstain from S3@.x:’ with a new girlfriend.

3. At her parents’ house


That’s not the best location for the love games. They may return home unexpectedly. Or if they are home, they may enter her room any time and catch you at it. It’s a very embarrassing situation.

4. When you wish to marry her


She is a V!rg!n, and you have made up your mind to marry her. But you want her so and think: what if we do it now? Why wait for the wedding night? Stop! You are going to ruin it all. Waiting does not kill anyone. Just set the date and you won’t regret it. As waiting double the pleasure on the first night!

These reasons should stop you and make you think. S3@.x:’ is not always a good idea, and it can be dangerous and has the power to ruin your life when done at the wrong time and with the wrong person.

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