Crises take place in any long relationships. It’s human, and there’s nothing frightening in it. Just don’t panic and try your best to keep relationship work. We will tell you about the key periods when you need to work quite a bit in order to avoid the crisis.
It’s a dangerous time. The couple faces a lot of changes in the first two years. Stable relationship seems to cool down the heat and passion between partners. Some think, this is the end of love, and they couldn’t be more wrong. In this moments you should think of yourself as a strong couple, and learn to live together. The most important thing is to give your partner enough personal space. The birth of a baby can bring about new conflicts, but remember that you are a couple. Try to find support in each other.
In this period, partners seem to be too much into each other. As a result, they try to return to their old ways. It’s nothing but fear. Be yourself! It was the thing that attracted your partner. Don’t give up your aspirations in order to stay in a marriage.
Besides, most couples become parents in this period, which means new roles and duties. Share them, help each other and enjoy living together.
It’s a period when the relationship seems too stable. It may encourage some partners to look for something new. Most cases of infidelity take place in this period. Partners should remember to keep each other happy and make nice surprises so as to avoid boredom. It shouldn’t be anything weird. Just keep the relationship going. In this period, some women try to do things their husbands liked before marriage. It’s a big mistake. Their taste could change. Having a second baby to improve the relationship is a bad idea too. It can undermine it instead.
It seems that nothing could go bad by this time, but most couple file for divorce in this period. It’s the least explicable crisis. People start to think they don’t fit each other, they feel estranged and want to try something new. It’s a fear caused by age, but you can overcome it. Just remember all the good moments you shared. If you want to have a fresh start, do it together! Go travelling, start up a new business, make up an event that will remind you of your past. Give your children an example of true love that lasts forever.
This crisis is associated with children leaving home. Spouses often forget what they were before becoming parents. But it’s not the end. It’s rather a fresh start! Now you don’t have to worry about children’s raising and upbringing. Instead, you can become passionate lovers again and simply enjoy being together!
Tips for all couples:
– don’t store up bitterness. Talk to your partner;
– don’t push each other away. Spend time together, when your partner needs it badly;
– don’t blame each other for your problems. It’s you who builds up the relationship;
– respect each other’s interests;
– develop together;
– study each other’s sexual preferences;
– appreciate each other!