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6 things that men do that is a total turnoff during sex


When making love with your partner, you want to be able to feel like you are getting the best out of your romp session but some actions or inactions before that can ruin your chances.

Black couple in love in the bed

Here are six wrong things men do before bed and what to do about them.

1. Getting drunk

This is usually the go-to move for some men. Perhaps because they want to feel more confident or less inhibited, some men down a few bottles of alcohol before having S3@.x:’. A lot of men have reported that they perform less satisfactorily when drunk. Even science backs this theory. Stay away from too much booze before S3@.x:’ to have a better time in bed.

2. Disregarding protection

If you know you have an active S3@.x:’ life, it is important to carry protection with you. A woman will be easily turned off if you come unprepared. You are a man and this makes you the responsible one. Women are not comfortable carrying around condoms in their purses.

Condom put on pink jeans pocket.
Condom put on pink jeans pocket.

3. Not peeing beforehand

It can be quite uncomfortable peeing with an erection. It can even be a total turn off when you stop mid-S3@.x:’ to pee. Empty your bladder before you get in bed.

4. Depending on S3@.x:’ pills or energy drinks

If you know you do not need them to perform, do not depend on S3@.x:’ pills or drinks to aid your performance. While you might enjoy the thrill in the short run, it gradually kills your sexual libido and energy. This means you will get to a point where without these pills, you are as good as useless.

Thirsty Black Man

5. Overeating or eating heavy meals

You do not need to load up on heavy meals for sexual energy. In fact, the opposite can happen. When you get too full, you can suffer cramps or stomach discomfort during S3@.x:’ that can kill the fun.

6. Talking too much

A lot of women do not find talkativeness sexy. You do not need to go on and on about what you will do to her and how you will do it. A little dirty talk is fine but focus on pleasing her without saying too much. Let your body do the work and not your mouth.